~~~~~AKSHVI<3
you are idolizing bare minimum and it’s ruining your dating potential and I know that because I used to do the exact same
thing but guess what I went from settling in relationships not getting the treatment I deserve crying myself to
sleep every night because of arguments comparing myself to other girls because my exes would make me feel insecure begging a whole man to plan a date for
me and then teach him how to be a boyfriend to now receiving princess treatment every single day
because this
might come as a shock to some of you but I am in a long-term relationship and that was the first time I’ve said that
on the internet but anyway we’ll talk about that later to now getting regular flower deliveries to my house getting
dates planned for me all the time never having to pick up the bill because my partner knows how to be a gentleman and
he knows what it means to be in his masculine energy living my passenger princess life even though I know how to drive getting doors open for me
THE REAL BARE MINIMUM
what actually is the bare minimum so first of all let’s start with should we even have dating standards like how
important actually are they why does everybody stress about it when you have zero standards that means you have not
taken the very important time to figure out what you want your ideal life to look like and when you don’t do that you
are putting out this message not only to other people but to the universe that you will tolerate bare minimum
experiences for example Lola has a few standards a few requirements she’s not of that fussy on it she’s pretty easy
going okay she’s just dating to just date so let’s say her stand is Right 15 when a man comes in and gives her one
more extra requirement that she didn’t have on her list okay he’s giving her 20 she is jumping for joy okay she counts
herself so lucky to be with this man.
she fully accepts to be in a relationship with him she thinks he’s the best she’s
ever gonna get because he’s giving her 20 but guess what she’s still only at 20 that is incredibly low hello because she
didn’t take the time in the first place to raise her 15 to 100 which is where it should be and that means when somebody
comes into your life still offering you the bare minimum because you haven’t learned your worth and you haven’t
raised your standards and you haven’t figured out what you want your life to look like you’re gonna be jumping for
joy at the basics you’re going to be settling and then be envious of all of the girls that get princess treatment
because you’re like how meanwhile people like Athena take the time to learn about
themselves to raise their confidence their self-worth their feminine energy and they set their members at 100
that means that she is so fulfilled in who she is as a person and her life that she doesn’t spend her time chasing a man
a man better come and offer up a thousand percent because men are only additions to our lives we’re not out
here at 80 or 90 looking for a man to come and complete the rest of us our life is 100 fulfilling as it is so if
you are going to come and be qualified to be an addition into my life you better be offering up the whole damn
table and another reason as to why relationship standards are so important is it actually helps your relationships
last longer because you know what you’re looking for when you don’t have any standards for yourself and then you’re therefore easily impressed everything’s
all cool in the beginning and then a few months later all of the problems come in….
you’re like how did I not see these whereas Athena sets her standards so she
won’t even entertain someone who doesn’t align with her values sure they have to treat her right but they also have to
align with her mindset and the future lifestyle that she has envisioned for herself therefore because she has a
stand is her relationships are more likely to last a longer time and she’s going to experience less heartbreak as a
result she’s protecting herself now I’m going to give you a test to see if you actually idolize the bare minimum and
the signs are if you romanticize or get overly happy at any of the following things let’s go when he opens doors for
you when he’s polite service staff when he has basic communication skills like listening to you responding to what you
said asking how your day was when he responds to a text and doesn’t take too long to respond back when he wants to
spend time with you and actually initiates plans to hang out when they have manners when they’re a kind genuine
person when they text you good morning when they use the sidewalk Rule and lastly when they’re there for you they’re patient with you they don’t
overreact
COMMUNICATING STANDARDS
gonna communicate your standards in order to get them met first of all disclaimer because so many people hate the term high value men it is not a
derogatory term I am not trying to put anybody down okay high value men simply
mean men that are going to bring a lot of value into your life low value men
are not bad people okay they’re still worthy of love it’s just they’re not really bringing a lot to the table
because of whatever they’ve got going on in their life and whatever their mindset is okay high value men literally date
for the purpose of providing for you and giving you princess treatment love argument don’t think in that way
therefore they are bringing a low amount of value into their life ..,..
‘”OH LADYS!!!SEE YOU WORTH DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME TO GROW YOUR NAILS AND EYELASHES, INVEST YOUR TIME TO GROW YOUR BANK BALANCE “
That’s from my side for today thanks for Reading 🌸🥂 see you in next blog……
~~~~~~~AKSHVI<3
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